That's not easy for everyone, unfortunately.
Because there are many fluids from other oil blenders which say "Equivalent to and exceeds MB 236.12" but if you read all, they also say "... DEXRON II.. DEXRON III... DEXRON IV... DEXRON VVI" and similar specifications.
DEXRON specs are Not suitable for 7 and 9 speed transmissions. Those really give the fluid a thrashing.
When a fluid states it is ONLY "Equivalent to MB 236.12" then it's fine to TRY it if it's a lot cheaper or if it's the only equivalent fluid available.
Why are these fluids so sensitive?
Because incorrect spec fluids don't have the necessary "modifiers" in them to keep them consistent especially at low speeds, and they Froth when they get hot and churned in the gearbox, and cause what I've described - kicks and / or slipping on gearchange.
After paying around $200-$300 plus labour for a "cheap" fluid change, even instead of $600-$700, which is typical at a gearbox "specialist" or some main dealers, the last thing you want is for your transmission to kick you in the back when it was lovely and smooth before.
In extreme cases people have changed complete gearboxes at the main dealer for $4,000-$5,000 or more after using an incorrect fluid and getting frightened that they'd destroyed their gearbox. The main dealer often will not open a gearbox, just replace it.
You don't have to buy the Mercedes own-brand fluid from the main dealer. If you look at the 236.12 and 236.14 lists that I pointed to, so you can see for yourselves that it's MB's recommendation not mine, you'll find that MB did test and approve MANY fluids from lots of manufacturers.
As an example... The last time I bought original MB 236.14 it was around €25 per litre. An equivalent single-spec fluid cost around €11 per litre. I can't remember the brand, maybe Meyle or Febi.
They are both good brands, and the original MB fluid is not that much more. And the fluid doesn't need changing frequently, the recommended interval is 40,000 miles I think, but double that is fine as long as you change the filter at the same time. Change the filter every 2nd fluid change if you like to change your fluid every 40,000 miles.
So allowing for 10 litres per fluid change, the cost of original MB 236.14 is €250 and €110 for the equivalent.
Do NOT use ANY fluid that states "DEXRON XXX" nor ANY Multi-spec or generic "6-speed ATF transmission fluid" in 7-speed or 9-speed gearboxes.
They might be OK in 5-speed and 4-speed auto transmissions but they cost the same as the correct truly equivalent fluid, so there is no reason if the correct fluid is available for those, 236.10 usually.
I did a similar trial of ZF 6HP26 transmission fluid in my Jaguar when the original ZF 6 fluid cost ÂŁ25 per litre. Shell supplied the original spec to ZF and their M1375.4 is the true equivalent for ZF 6 and cost ÂŁ98 for a 20 litre drum direct from Shells official UK distributor. That's ÂŁ5 per litre.
By all means look outside the box but do some good detective work and most of all... be sensible.
