Another update: finally the OVP relay arrived, and was replaced. It did make a diference, but NOT for better!!! For some reason, the cold idle is even lower than before! In the morning it's at 490-500 rpm! I assume it finally allows current to get to the ELR/ARA module, as I think now the ARA is functional. Before, specially when cold, the car used to judder quite a bit when taking off in 1st gear, and now that seems much improved. When shutting off the engine, the idle increases slightly for a split second. It also seems that sometimes, if i revv it, it will hold around 600/650 rpm, and after a few seconds go back down to 500. Also when pulling codes with the OBD1 blinking code reader, in port number 4 (EDS system), my fault code number 6 (open/short circuit on ELR module) is now gone. It only gives me number 5 (related to the EGR, but my car doesn't have EGR, so I think I can ignore that), and a number 2 (fuel rack position sensor). With the engine running there are no codes at all, and I can't find any sensor connected to the injection pump, so I don't know what to make of code number 2...
In conclusion, changing the OVP relay definitely did something, but it still isn't right. I wonder if I just need to increase the idle mechanically on the ajustment screw behind the IP, but my idle seems correct when the engine is warm (around 650/700 rpm), so wouldn't that result in an overly high warm idle? I also tried measuring the voltage at the connector that goes into the ELR actuator, and sometimes it had virtually nothing, and other times I got values between 4 and 6V. Could it be a wiring issue in that cable? How could I test that properly?
Anyway, sorry for the very long text, and your help and advice is very much appreciated.