No trouble, Bob! This is an exciting and valuable mod and I really have to thank Drkvampire2001 for figuring this all out and teaching me something new. As long as you have COMAND NTG 2.5 (and your MY2009 should), this is a fairly easy and inexpensive three step process:
1. Install a suitable backup camera in the rear of the car and get its video signal to the dash (wired or wireless).
2. Connect the video output from the camera to the video input port on the back of the COMAND unit using a FAKRA-to-RCA adapter.
3. Use SDS "developer mode" options to code the COMAND unit to the presence of a backup camera so that it displays its video when the vehicle is in reverse gear.
Besides the camera, FAKRA adapter and either a longer RCA cable or wireless adapter kit, no other expensive third party parts or modules are required! Total parts cost is $60-$65 (see below).
To make sure you the NTG 2.5 COMAND, just look for the SD-card slot above the DVD slot, built-in. It will also have built-in Bluetooth hands-free without the need for a "puck" adapter in the center console. It also lacks the "soft" buttons (4 on each side of the LCD screen).
To get video from the camera in the trunk lid to the back of the COMAND unit, you can go wired or wireless. For wired, you just run a long cable from the back of the COMAND in the dash, through the body, up the trunk hinges, and to the camera in the lid. The Crimestopper camera we used comes with a 20-foot RCA video+power cable for wired hookup, but it's not long enough, so you'll need to buy a longer one. For wireless, you need a transmitter/receiver pair. Mount the transmitter in the trunk lid with the camera, and the receiver behind the COMAND unit.
The pros of a wired system is that you don't have to worry about any RF interference disrupting the signal. Also, using a cable with both video and power combined, you can easily tap into the cigarette lighter for a power source instead of having to mess with the wiring in the trunk lid. Note that the power sources in the trunk lid are always on, so this would be just one more drain on the precious consumer battery. The cigarette lighter is only powered with the ignition. The main con of going wired is that you have to remove some trim to run the wiring, plus you'll need to carefully run it up the two-way hinge on the trunk lid. It's not difficult, but will take a few extra minutes.
The pros of a wireless system are not having to deal with running wire through the car or trunk hinge. The con is that you have to pickup power in the trunk lid and it will be always on. Plus, it will be prone to interference. Many cars use RF transmitters for their backup cameras, even as factory equipment.
As I said, it's under $65 for parts:
Crimestopper camera $40:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00DEJRVII
FAKRA-to-RCa adapter $9:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B012IAKEPU
Wireless option $12:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DY0UAXE
Or wired option $10:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B016PX9ES4
Now, you have to consider labor. If you DIY, then there's no real labor costs. If not, I'd expect to pay an installer for several hours of work, so maybe $200. On top of that, you'll need SDS with developer mode to do the coding. I see that the OP used his dealer. I am surprised at that, because I did not realize the dealer's SDS had developer mode - I've only seen that on the Chinese clone versions. Then again, maybe I overlooked the setting in the standard adaptations, or the latest version of SDS has in in the standard settings. Anyhow, unless you find a friend with SDS who will do it for "beer", then maybe another $100 for a shop to help.