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there is a little black rectangular valve that goes connected to the fuel distributor unde...

there is a little black rectangular valve that goes connected to the fuel distributor under the air filter.
I believe it is called the EAJ valve. If you try everything else without luck, change that and it should do the trick. To know if it absolutely needs to be changed, run your finger through the bottom of it and see if it is leaking gas.

 

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hnmmmm, that, sucks. It is difficult to pinpoint problems when you cant actually see the c...

hnmmmm, that, sucks. It is difficult to pinpoint problems when you cant actually see the car!!
oh well, if you figure out what it is let us know, thanks.

 

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Have you checked if there is an oxygen/air leak? it could be related... Maybe a hose that ...

Have you checked if there is an oxygen/air leak? it could be related... Maybe a hose that needs to be replaced.
Might try using a new computer (ECU), which is many times related to these things.