Steve, ignoring all the rubbers & suspension and minor problems, your car had engine oil leaks, bad wiring, diff leaks, bad trans & HG leak. It's simply not normal buyer experience to have all those major issues, all at once. Only major issue it doesn't have is evaporator core. That's why I think your car is a unique case, I don't think it is just because of you. If you disagree then ok.
My 600 comes close, but I've also done ~12,000miles in 2 years. It was of the road for ~10 months. It still needs the trans rebuilt, and am yet to correct my KS wiring after my failed attempt, but I can still drive it hard.
Only major issue with my 1998 S420 (136,000 miles when I bought it) was the trans, been daily driving it for over 2 years, done ~38,000 miles in that time. I did not even replace the flexdisk and the prop shaft rubber support looked fine. I think the engine mounts were already recently done. It had a small list of items but nothing that needed the car off the road. It took me 6 weeks to source the correct thermostat due to various reasons,longest it's been off the road since transmission.
My late 1995 built S500 120,000 miles needed some balljoints, steering idler arm and engine mounts, cam oilers and a long list of small tedious items. Nothing major. Exterior wise it has seen a lot of weather. It has a slow seepage on the steering box and rear seal on transmission.
My 1996 S280 needed trans rebuilt, and had an oil cooler leak. Fixing oil cooler leak actually required a lot of work so I replaced water pump, water hoses and oil/water seals on the way.
Things like trans mount, shocks, voltage reg, water hoses, rebuilt PS/Tandem pump are common, not even worth mentioning.
Re. diff leaks I've owned 5 med-high mileage cars, no leaks on any of them.
Sydney W140 club member bought a 1994 S600, 85,000 miles. No issues, no leaks, nothing, not even the common engine oil leaks. He is restoring the interior from previous smoker owner and got the body 2-tone repainted to one tone. Maybe some rubbers are cracked and he has ordered in new engine mounts and other common wear items but that's all preventative. I've driven that car at 125mph, it's a dream.
Anyway, we have different perspectives.