Well I have been speaking to the dealers.. they are all trying to tell me the clutch packs are worn and it needs a new transmission.. I asked them how a 100k car at 106k miles that looks like it's in great shape could have a worn out trans already but they have no answer.. One of them said there is no such thing as a trans re-flash for this car, and he's been in the business for 13 years and never heard of a magical reflash.. they both said if the adaptaion numbers are high it's compensating for bad clutch pakcs.. but when I told the last guy it just started after I bought the car he said it may be a switch or something minor.. he also said that just resetting the adaptaion and drivng normal will not do anything. It will just relearn it's same bad habbits.. he said I have to follow that process of going from each gear ten times or so.. I am really starting to get discouraged with this car.. Like I said I came from BMW where everyone knew what all the issues were, there was none of this guessing, or could be this, etc.. I don't know what to do first.. Ahh!