Ok , so I went to a few wheels and tire websites put year make and model in to the the proper slots and picked only so me staggered sets. After some investigation I found a few sets and clicked add tires the tire size they say to use is
Front-225/40/18
Rear-265/35/18
Buy its always something, the off set on this set was 32 in the front and 35 in the rear will a diffrent offset also cause the abs issue if the above set up would work for me?
Also went to a wheel calculator and the 30 et on the wheels I want I lose 2mm in the inside and gain 24mm on the outside would this even work?
Iam starting to thing this is to much might just move on and find another set.one good thing I did get my windows tinted so there is some hope.