No offense intended but you see warnings all the time.Looks like JamesDean has given you a fairly comprehensive list of part numbers above.
I understand your desire to do business locally/in person. I am in LA, so that's not exactly next door. I see you are new to the forum-- welcome aboard! If it comes to not trusting an unknown b/c it's the Internet, then you could do a quick search here to check my reputation. Let me know if you still need the control module.