Ok. after experimenting with the classic trim coat a little, the magic ingredient is definately the polymer top coat. It had the same feel as a newly anodized section of trim. I am willing to bet, that it's the magic ingredient in the rubber kit, the aluminum kit, the plastic kit, and the bumper kit.
I coated a bunch of stuff with it, rubber, plastic, aluminum, just a stripe or 2. and that stuff is awesome. It really brings out the black in the rubber part of the side mirrors and i bet it lasts a ton longer than "back to black" might be a thought for grills as well. anyways...
so basically it's this. wetsand with 2000 grit sandpaper cutting down the anodizing a bit until shiney. (In my case, I didn't have to cut too far, but I had a very old, very bad piece of trim in my garage I tried and even that turned out good.),
then use the "Special" cleaner, (which is alcohol), and coat with the polymer top coat.
The sections I did to test, came out pretty nice. However, putting on the polymer takes practice to get it right. if you screw up, that's where the stripper comes into play. If you make more than 2 passes with the foam applicator, it dries and streaks bad. if you do it right, it looks awesome.
So, I went to Home depot today and bought a polymer by minwax. 5 bucks. I will play with that tomorrow and let ya know if I get the same result. if that's the case, you can refinish your trim for less than 20 bucks, to make it appear brand new. I'll post pics tomorrow as I only had a chance to "play" with it. the real work starts tomorrow.