Hi Julie
I agree with Greg that unless a mod moves your thread to the W208 forum, we might as well continue here. And his point about the 202 and 203 forums is important too. Confusingly, M-B shares some engines between different body styles, so you have to be prepared to look in both areas.
Regarding your oil leak problem, and M-B's attitude to such a 'design fault' - I suppose that they consider that anything that lasts beyond their 3 year warranty period (in the US) only fails through 'fair wear & tear'. In this instance they are clearly wrong. However, they will do free replacements of some parts. One example I know about is the free replacements of thousands of the 3rd brake light on the W209 CLK.
Finally, a couple of tips here, as your dad is available to do basic jobs for you. Get yourself a 3 DVD set of M-B WIS (service manual) from eBay. Mine was only £10 and has lots of good stuff, including torque settings. He also should have a couple of torque wrenches - one for the low range, say 5 -25 Nm, and the other for the high range. I spent years fixing my cars without owning a TW, but now for my CLK I always use them - even for fitting the wheels.
I'll monitor here for any future comments on your progress. Use PM for anything else. :thumbsup: