I have had a rebuild followed a year later by an inspection under warranty leading to a ruined box with a completely burned out clutch and a rebuild, in all costing me over 3,000€ in parts and labour (plus whatever it cost the garage concerned to rebuild it the third time, plus car hire, both apparently with modified drums and they hasn't cured the 1st to 2nd change problem with it 'flaring' between gears under load, drive softly and it's OK, so forget any thoughts of ECU problem, it's a hydro-mechanical fault, lack of pressure to the first gear clutch. Someone has swapped solenoids about and cured the problem on a couple of boxes. I now have a ‘bitsa’ box made up of the best bits from a few boxes and a new thrust bearing but still have mine flaring but only when I boot it out of a side road for instance, under normal conditions it's OK.
Oil level also seems to be crucial and a lot of garages check the level when the car is turned off in P, should be done in N with the engine running to get the right reading.