I have 18" wheels, 8" wide front 215/40 tyre, 9,5" wide rear with 245/35 tyre. Both are offset 35. They are not uncomfortable but since they are big they weigh alot and that is a slight negative on the driving experience. Feels quite responsive tho.
These dimensions are in my mind the maximum you would want to go to, since going wider would bring fitment issues and going to 19" or more would require tyre so thin it would become uncomfortable.
17" or 16" with stock offset of 37 or 35 will work just fine, just keep in mind that if you make the rear offset the same as front, the rears are going to sit deeper in the wheelwell and look funky, like they do in stock form. I would put 1" wider rims in the back or put an offset of 20 wheel in there.