I used the 1 7/8" socket to push the old bushing out. The socket was pushing mostly against the rubber, but I did not worry about damaging the old bushing.
When pushing the new bushing in, I used a 50mm cup from a ball joint tool kit. That's what caused the damage on one of the bushings because it was very hard to align the cup perfectly perpendicular over the bushing outer shell.
My advice to you is to to use a proper bushing tool kit. Bear in mind that when the bushing is fully inserted in the tappered hole of the control arm, it will have a diameter of 49mm when looking from the back of the control arm, and 50mm when looking at it from the front.
Since you live in the US, can't you rent the bushing kit from a place like Harbor Freight, O'Reilly Auto Parts, Auto Zone, etc.?
When pushing the new bushing in, I used a 50mm cup from a ball joint tool kit. That's what caused the damage on one of the bushings because it was very hard to align the cup perfectly perpendicular over the bushing outer shell.
My advice to you is to to use a proper bushing tool kit. Bear in mind that when the bushing is fully inserted in the tappered hole of the control arm, it will have a diameter of 49mm when looking from the back of the control arm, and 50mm when looking at it from the front.
Since you live in the US, can't you rent the bushing kit from a place like Harbor Freight, O'Reilly Auto Parts, Auto Zone, etc.?