Seems to smoke when the engine is under load smokes, and not it doesn't. Almost seams like a ring issue. That is the only part I can think of that gets loaded and controls oil consumption. I wonder if you have a worn ring groove, broken ring etc. I think I'd start with a compression check and possibly a borescope looking for piston wall issues. Just to rule that out. Be a shame to rip apart the top end only to find it was the bottom end.