Please understand that a Post sale inspection allows dealers to return the vehicle/back out of a deal, and or get the seller to cover any repairs/ discount the price accordingly if anything wrong is found. They do it differently... The procedure is different than a private sale. You have full recourse if any issues are found after purchased. - Don't worry, I was surprised as well when my dealer friend recommended we do this. In the end I still saved thousands of dollars on a car I thought I wanted. I have a problem of impluse buying with cars you may say.
There is no more need to post negative comments from other forum members here. Nor does it look like there are any serious interested parties either.
Every forum has a different personality. This one is pretty good. On some forums you'd have been run out of town for no good reason! I am a dealer but still find a very nice reception here; on some forums I am not welcome.
Your original post was lacking in some key info, you showed auction pics, talked about a dealer friend helping you with title, etc. So people, being a little unsure and naturally suspicious, started to slueth it out, make assumptions, and ask for proof of stuff. On this particular forum, people are pretty friendly, but there's been lots of scams to guards are up.
Don't go by people's comments as an indicator of interest....more than once I've had lots of critical comments/questions, answered them, and then had that person recommend a friend to me after being satisfied and they bought the car. The forum-knowledgeable friend was just acting as a screener for their more naive friend.
Anyhow, good luck with sale, hang in there, and can you let me know if the car is titled in your name currently so it is a private transaction, or is your dealer friend holding title in their name open so the sale goes through a dealer?