Date registered: Oct 2002
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Can you tell just by looking?
So this weekend one of my girlfriend's childhood friends was in town visiting and she sent an email a couple weeks ago wanting all of us to meet up for a drink before she heads back to the Mid-West. I never met her before (except some old college photos) and only heard her name mentioned occasionally so I really didn't have much expectations.
Her appearance reminds me of a typical dyke. Short hair and no make up, her mannerism is kind of manly. She was in a pair of jeans, a L.L.Bean shirt, and a pair Sketcher shoes. OK, maybe that's her style but to me thats a little too butchy for any woman.
When she showed us pictures of her life in the Mid-West, I noticed most people she hangs out with are women and they are all very lesbian looking.
After we got home, I asked my girlfriend if her friend is a dyke and she got offended and told me her friend is not. I asked her how she knows and she said she knows her all her life. Then I asked why her friend is 42 and not even dating, and the answer was that she did date but was hurt so she shies away from relationships.
I know I can't make a judgment base on people's clothing, but don't you guys think most women like to dress like a woman, not like a man? Unless she is a dyke? Then again, some dykes are very feminine, like Ellen DeGeneres.
Clearly in the pictures I saw some of the women were hanging on to one another, a gesture you never see me doing with another guy. So my girlfriend thinks I am insulting her friend and what goes in my mind is why is she defending her? Then I was getting panic thinking maybe my girlfriend is yet to come out of the closet. Yikes!!!
'04 G35.5 BS