Where is your wife's family in all this? Any support?
Her mother is suffering from Alzimers and badly. Her sister adopted a child because she was told she could not have children and then found she was pregnant. She gave birth by operation and now the doctors say the baby may have brain damage
I bought a van last year and gave it to her sister's husband to start a small business. He used it and hit a dumper truck head on whilst overtaking. He almost lost his legs. My wife sold her mothers house to pay the medical fee's for his several operations.
So now, when her sister is out of hospital and back on her feet, I will have to open a small shop for her to look after the family
NOW, for those who are reading this - think long and hard about living and working in a developing country OK. It's not all honey and I worry about my wife's mental state as well.
For the two days I was in Hong Kong she did not get out of bed and tonight I had to, discretely, phone my wife's friend and ask her to take her out to eat and cheer her up.
I don't know how much longer I can take this pressure but I refuse to give in.