Tell Vicky that Sharon and I are thinking about her [and you too].
Where is the surgery going to be? Danville or Lex?
If we need to postpone the GTG til she is better, I have no problem with that at all. I would rather see her happy and healthy at the party rather than us at the GTG worrying about how she was doing. Because I just know there would be an "incident" if all of BWOT showed up at Ephraim McDowell Recovery ICU en masse. Danville's little police department would overreact for sure.
I wouldn't change you meet date, Vickie has an appointment on the 3rd and the surgery will sometime the next week. But they have changed the surgery date several times.