That was just what I needed...to move on! - Mercedes-Benz Forum

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
post #1 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 10:40 PM Thread Starter
BenzWorld Elite
 
chill_babe's Avatar
 
Date registered: Jun 2006
Vehicle: C230
Location: St. Louis =P
Posts: 1,252
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
(Thread Starter)
That was just what I needed...to move on!

As I'm sure some of you know...I went to Chicago this past weekend to see that baseball player that I've known, and have talked about on this forum in the past. Well..the first day was great, we were laughing & having a good time, treating me w/respect...until the drinking started. And sometimes when he drinks heavily, he gets a lil out there. And I think once other guys start looking at me or showing me attention, he takes it out on me, like I did something wrong when all they are doing is looking, SO that's when he takes out so called revenge and starts talking to other girls or even dancing w/them, while I'm being the good girl that I am & trying to stay close by his side, but then when I do that, he thinks I'm c*ck blocking? WTF? So he's back to his old ways of getting jealous of my attention, then tries to get his own attention on his own. So it's obviously all about his badly bruised ego. I just don't get what he thinks when I'm standing there by him, that he thinks I'm trying to ruin his game, why even have me there then?? That's what I don't get.
BUT WOW I had a better time walking downtown at night by myself for a lil bit, it felt invigorating.
So since he was acting like a fool, I gave it to him straight as I left to fly back, I hugged him, and whispered in his ear "thanks for the sex" (even though it was just one time while we were there the whole time) he looked confused to think I'd say that, and then I walked off, and didn't look back, and it felt SO good to do that. I just don't get why he'd want me around if he thought it would ruin his game? That's the dimented part about him.
chill_babe is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
post #2 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 10:46 PM
BenzWorld Elite
 
mcbear's Avatar
 
Date registered: Apr 2004
Vehicle: E500Es
Location: The BlueGrass State
Posts: 29,579
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 3 Post(s)
Sorry your trip did not work out, but sounds like you got a good answer to a question that was in your head so that is a positive.

If you have not deleted his phone number from your cell and put a block on his numbers yet, do those things now. He won't get better.

McBear,
Kentucky

Being smart is knowing the difference, in a sticky situation between a well delivered anecdote and a well delivered antidote - bear.
mcbear is offline  
post #3 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 10:46 PM
BenzWorld Elite
 
Punjabi's Avatar
 
Date registered: Mar 2005
Vehicle: Bandwidth
Location: In Virtual Reality
Posts: 3,256
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
heh, heh.......YAWN! Did he buy you a parting cuddly toy gift from the local 'Toys R Us' heh, heh.......
Punjabi is offline  
post #4 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 10:48 PM
Cruise Control
 
Zeitgeist's Avatar
 
Date registered: Sep 2004
Vehicle: '87 300TD/'90 300D/'94 Quattro/'89 Vanagon TDI/'01 EV Weekender VR6
Location: Cascadia
Posts: 51,730
Mentioned: 6 Post(s)
Quoted: 1426 Post(s)
Lifetime Premium Member
Well, rather than immediately seeking to fill-the-void, as it were, now could be the opportunity to turn this situation into a "teachable moment". Why not try to be a bit introspective and figure out why you seem to be attracted to these unsophisticated mono-dimensional bozos.
Zeitgeist is offline  
post #5 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 10:55 PM
Administratoris Emeritus
 
GeeS's Avatar
 
Date registered: Aug 2002
Vehicle: 2021 SL770
Location: Fountain Hills, AZ
Posts: 44,915
Mentioned: 2 Post(s)
Quoted: 591 Post(s)

"If spending money you don't have is the height of stupidity, borrowing money to give it away is the height of insanity." -- anon
GeeS is offline  
post #6 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 10:56 PM
worst mod in BW history
 
ThrillKill's Avatar
 
Date registered: Apr 2005
Vehicle: ML CLK Iridescent Hyundai Accent lol,GoPed Freightshaker & Volvo semi's, c'mawn?
Location: Chicago
Posts: 27,762
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 3 Post(s)
Lifetime Premium Member
Hey, I'm sitting here in Sullivan Mo. on my way to Texas. We could knock the boots if you don't mind my oxygen tank and colostomy bag. I'm here for you mi amour.


Booze is wasted on the young,

ThrillKill is offline  
post #7 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 11:12 PM
BenzWorld Elite
 
Jillian80's Avatar
 
Date registered: Dec 2004
Vehicle: DeLorean DMC-12
Location: Birmingham, AL
Posts: 5,180
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 7 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by ThrillKill View Post
Booze is wasted on the young,
Especially when they mix Grey Goose and fucking Coca-Cola.
Jillian80 is offline  
post #8 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 11:22 PM
BenzWorld Elite
 
Jayhawk's Avatar
 
Date registered: Aug 2005
Vehicle: S500/W220/2000
Location: Lawrence, KS (USA)
Posts: 21,652
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 3 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by chill_babe View Post
As I'm sure some of you know...I went to Chicago this past weekend to see that baseball player that I've known, and have talked about on this forum in the past. Well..the first day was great, we were laughing & having a good time, treating me w/respect...until the drinking started. And sometimes when he drinks heavily, he gets a lil out there. And I think once other guys start looking at me or showing me attention, he takes it out on me, like I did something wrong when all they are doing is looking, SO that's when he takes out so called revenge and starts talking to other girls or even dancing w/them, while I'm being the good girl that I am & trying to stay close by his side, but then when I do that, he thinks I'm c*ck blocking? WTF? So he's back to his old ways of getting jealous of my attention, then tries to get his own attention on his own. So it's obviously all about his badly bruised ego. I just don't get what he thinks when I'm standing there by him, that he thinks I'm trying to ruin his game, why even have me there then?? That's what I don't get.
BUT WOW I had a better time walking downtown at night by myself for a lil bit, it felt invigorating.
So since he was acting like a fool, I gave it to him straight as I left to fly back, I hugged him, and whispered in his ear "thanks for the sex" (even though it was just one time while we were there the whole time) he looked confused to think I'd say that, and then I walked off, and didn't look back, and it felt SO good to do that. I just don't get why he'd want me around if he thought it would ruin his game? That's the dimented part about him.
Sorry CB! I hoped for the best for you, but feared the worse from that guy. I thought maybe he had changed and really cared, but obviously ...

I really do hope you can put him behind you now, but I won't hold my breath for that either. For your sake, just move on. Life is great! Go enjoy it, and don't waste another minute on that loser.

Welcome back!

Don't believe everything you think
Jayhawk is offline  
post #9 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 11:23 PM
BenzWorld Elite
 
Jayhawk's Avatar
 
Date registered: Aug 2005
Vehicle: S500/W220/2000
Location: Lawrence, KS (USA)
Posts: 21,652
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 3 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by ThrillKill View Post
..........
Booze is wasted on the young,
So is youth...

Don't believe everything you think
Jayhawk is offline  
post #10 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-08-2007, 02:40 AM
~BANNED~
 
Date registered: Aug 2002
Posts: 41,649
Mentioned: 6 Post(s)
Quoted: 1761 Post(s)
Chill Babe just needs to get some self esteem and stop trying to fit in the nasty system and marry when all she really wants to do is fuck and be friendly. It is ok to fuck and be friendly, you do not have to endure all the baggage you had impressed upon you when you grew up. Be your own dog.

Last edited by Shane; 10-08-2007 at 02:44 AM.
Shane is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Reply

  Mercedes-Benz Forum > General Mercedes-Benz Forums > Off-Topic

Quick Reply
Message:
Options

Register Now



In order to be able to post messages on the Mercedes-Benz Forum forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.

User Name:
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.

Password:


Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.

Email Address:
OR

Log-in











  • Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
     
    Thread Tools
    Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
    Email this Page Email this Page
    Display Modes
    Linear Mode Linear Mode



    Similar Threads
    Topic Author Forum Replies Last Post
    Move!!!!! asianml Off-Topic 4 02-17-2007 03:42 PM
    DVD's on the move jacarandableu W211 E55 AMG, E63 AMG 5 12-15-2006 09:05 PM
    Seat No Move No More! Stickman W124 E,CE,D,TD Class 8 05-22-2006 02:55 PM
    Downtime/Move dewdaltz W163 M-Class 3 04-21-2006 02:55 PM
    "Move OVER PLEASE??" Arnee R170 SLK-Class 17 03-13-2001 11:27 AM

    Posting Rules  
    You may post new threads
    You may post replies
    You may not post attachments
    You may not edit your posts

    BB code is On
    Smilies are On
    [IMG] code is On
    HTML code is Off
    Trackbacks are On
    Pingbacks are On
    Refbacks are On

     

    Title goes here

    close
    video goes here
    description goes here. Read Full Story
    For the best viewing experience please update your browser to Google Chrome