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Not if you're "in l-u-v..."

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yah I don't know what was wrong w/me, I knew we were friends, but I guess all it is was that I feared losing that "partner" and I don't get why that was so important to me, because I'd rather now have a meaningful experience. I always seemed to learned my way, the hard way but that's just how I am and I wish I could change that side of me.
well I'm glad I got home safe that's all I gotta say!!

oh and ps. it was funny because when we were at a bar in wrigleyville, he said I could put my drinks on his tab, so I did, alot of them, and other people's drinks too, I even made friends with the girl he was hitting on and took shots w/her on his tab, even guys that bought me drinks I bought theirs on his tab, like they were free drinks haha. his bar tab was $200
Perhaps all that alcohol lowers inhibitions and clouds the judgment, too.

Not a bad thing,in and of itself, except when you are thinking "about taking things to the next level" as you said....

Ahh, have a good time, you are still young

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yah well I don't know what I was thinking, I should've treated him just like a fun friend, one who likes to party and that's it, but I went a lil too far apparently. but I don't think he's capable of ever having a meaningful relationship. I think when he didn't make baseball, everything went downhill from there and how he grew up didn't make it any better. when he's under the influence of alcohol, he gets verbally abusive then I'll call him on it the next day and he says he doesn't remember. like he said that he didn't want to talk to me anymore when he was drunk and I told him that the next morning and he said "I didn't say that" so he's like dr. jeckyl & mr. hyde.
I wonder what he thought when I said "thanks for the sex" when I left haha.
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yah well I don't know what I was thinking, I should've treated him just like a fun friend, one who likes to party and that's it, but I went a lil too far apparently. but I don't think he's capable of ever having a meaningful relationship. I think when he didn't make baseball, everything went downhill from there and how he grew up didn't make it any better. when he's under the influence of alcohol, he gets verbally abusive then I'll call him on it the next day and he says he doesn't remember. like he said that he didn't want to talk to me anymore when he was drunk and I told him that the next morning and he said "I didn't say that" so he's like dr. jeckyl & mr. hyde.
I wonder what he thought when I said "thanks for the sex" when I left haha.
Just walk away. Please. Just walk away. He is not capable of ever having a meaningful relationship--at least not w/ you. Forgive me, but that is my take on this situation right now. I suspect that you are re-thinking every word and action of yours, but trust me on this one: THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO W/ WHAT YOU DID OR SAID. He is a loser; and the sooner you can get to that fact the better for you.

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Just walk away. Please. Just walk away. He is not capable of ever having a meaningful relationship--at least not w/ you. Forgive me, but that is my take on this situation right now. I suspect that you are re-thinking every word and action of yours, but trust me on this one: THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO W/ WHAT YOU DID OR SAID. He is a loser; and the sooner you can get to that fact the better for you.
no I know that about me, I just meant in general, with any other girl, I think he's going to live a miserable lonely life
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no I know that about me, I just meant in general, with any other girl, I think he's going to live a miserable lonely life
We can only hope...

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I don't understand why he picked me, but he has low self-confidence and most likely using me as an ego boost.
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I don't understand why he picked me, but he has low self-confidence and most likely using me as an ego boost.
I think you called that right, but please don't look for the answer/s w/in yourself. Basically, you need to understand this: he is a bad person and you are a good person. You're just too good for your own self...

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no I know that about me, I just meant in general, with any other girl, I think he's going to live a miserable lonely life
People do change
In my young years I was the typical jerk that didn't give a shit but girls back then found that attractive. To my loss I could never form meaningful relationships because of my attitude and the kind of women that hung around me. Fortunately after many years of "self discovery" and somehow being very lucky in avoiding venereal diseases I got snagged by my present wife. She never showed interest in me and she tactfully avoided my moves and whatever bullshit tactics I knew; that drove me nuts and made me want her even more, so I made every effort to move out of my parents house and stop freeloading. I moved in to her art studio and she used me as a prop for her paintings and sculptures. I had to endure hours of embarrassing nude poses while she and her colleagues sipped champagne and splashed paint around. I paid my dues and I managed to qualify as her boy toy. The rest is a much longer story...
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I think you called that right, but please don't look for the answer/s w/in yourself. Basically, you need to understand this: he is a bad person and you are a good person. You're just too good for your own self...
Au contraire, mon frère...she most definitely does indeed need to look within, 'cause she has a pattern of attracting these low-brow horndogs. As I said, now's the time to be constructively introspective. She says she wants to transition from party girl to the pleasantly plump kitchen maven; that don't happen by dangling the same bait, or kickin' it with the same ol' crowd.
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