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post #1 of 45 (permalink) Old 09-28-2007, 12:30 PM Thread Starter
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Angry 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, Having Sex With A 16-Year-Old | Becoming A Pick-Up Artist )
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post #2 of 45 (permalink) Old 09-28-2007, 12:35 PM
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Ok, I read the blog. We've got a horny 22 year old guy going to the mall to try and pick up on a girl he thought was 18. He found out she was 16 and backed off right away, although he kept her number. He is now thinking about calling her for a hookup. If you believe his version of events, she was in to him and offered up her phone number. Is 22 and 18 such a big difference? That's the same as a college senior picking up a college freshman at a party. Does that ever happen?

So as a father, would you have a problem with your 18 year old daughter getting picked up by a 22 year old? Or your 16 year old daughter getting picked up by a 20 year old? Or your 16 year old daughter having sex in the back seat of her 17 year old boyfriend's parents car? Is it her having sex or is it the age differential?

Again, if you believe this guy's version of events, she was in to him as much as he was in to her, and she was the one who offered up the phone number. So she isn't a novice at flirting or being picked up. That doesn't mean she was going to have sex with him, but this isn't her first rodeo either. You just need to teach your daughter as best as you can and then trust her to make good decisions. Giving your phone number to a stranger at the mall probably isn't a good decision, regardless of the age differential.

When I was 22, if I was single, and had the chance to hook up with a hot 16 year old who I initially thought was 18 or 19, I'd have probably done it. But I also probably wouldn't have wanted my friends to find out about it.
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heh, heh.......as Sherlock Holmes would put to Dr Watson ".......there is something sinister about this 'Dewayne2' character, my dear Watson....." heh, heh.......
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...You just need to teach your daughter as best as you can and then trust her to make good decisions. Giving your phone number to a stranger at the mall probably isn't a good decision, regardless of the age differential...

what he said.


BTW, I have a soon-to-be 5-yr old daughter. I understand the concern as well. The best method I foresee between my daughter and myself as we both grow up is that we keep our communication channels open and for me to be her good advisor, rather than being a dogmatic paternal figure.

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BTW, out of curiosity, what if you had a high school age son instead and he was involved in something like this?

http://www.benzworld.org/forums/off-...ound-daho.html

Pray tell that you don't give him a beer and tell him "Well done for nailing an older woman," with a pat on his back as that will constitute horrendous double standard.

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Age of consent is the legal factor, level of maturity of the parties concerned is the most important. One of my 18 yr old daughters was going out with a guy of 25 last year-(BFD) and the other with a lad of 17. They were both happy with their situation. If either of the guys had acted up, they would have received similar treatment.
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if he drives a funny car he's not going out with my daughter !
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16 year old children are not suitable candidates for serious relationships. I have seen first hand what happens when braces collide and generally teen love is a massive inconvenience to the whole family. First you get the romantic daze, the loss of interest in education, the threats to leave home and then suicide threats. This would all generally happen in the same day or even one afternoon, then again the following day.

Anyone who allows a silly, giggly, immature teen to have anything close to a serious relationship truly deserves the consequences of living with the drama.

Given the amount of information people have now they wrongly assume that the emotional brain is developed at the same rate as the physical body.

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