Forum Administrator RC Colas® & Moon Pies®
Date registered: Oct 2006
Vehicle: 1981 380SL 151K: 2001 E320 4Matic Estate 147K: 2008 E350 Sport 4Matic 120K: 2005 S500 116K
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I need your guys' opinion
I'm asking this because you all are guys of course and hopefully I'll get good advice coming from your guys' opinion.
Anyway..I emailed this girl that I've been seeing since May, off and on, to ask what she was doing for the weekend. Then we got into a deeper discussion about what "this" relationship is. Well she thought I was hinting towards sex, which I WAS since we did do it once about a month ago and the train has left the station on that one, BUT we hadn't made anything exclusive yet, so when I bring up this kind of talk, she takes a step back because she doesn't want to be in a friends with benefits relationship with me (typical chick BS, yanno?), She'd rather be in a serious relationship instead (Yawn). So...she asked me bluntly if I was seeing anyone else here or in another state since I travel sometimes, I told her no (because I can lie like a rug), and then she asked if I was sleeping or planned on sleeping with anyone else, I said I'm not sleeping with anyone at this time. I mean, come ON! You just never know, do you??? My question is...should I use her until she finds someone to be in a serious relationship with or what do you think the meaning is behind that?
I did say in an email before after we discussed when she should call me, or how often, and I said "well when you're drunk & horny is the #1 time to call me" (pretty slick, eh?) that's when she put on the breaks and said "nope wrong answer" but that was before what I just explained.
so what is going on here?? am I blind??? Is she a tease???
sorry I know guys don't like drama, or readng about it, but please hear me out!!
Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?