Originally Posted by JimSmith
Well CB, I will give you credit for adding threads to the forum with a near Kamil level of sexual fantasy. And, I would agree with Drewprof on this one, with one exception. If you do the three way, take pictures so you have a memento. And post them so we do too. If there is anything Kamil failed to do it was post pictures that proved it was not all a bunch of imaginary tales.
On the other hand, what you do and when you do it, is really your business. I don't see what you have done to date if the version we read above is accurate as much more than you taking advantage of the male program to infect females, for your own entertainment. It likely entertained the males as well.
The only detrimental aspect of that particular play is, no male is going to be seriously interested in a long term relationship with a female who does two guys at a time. So, if you do a threesome, or in some cases indicate it might be a choice you would make under certain cirumstances in the future, neither male will view you as a candidate for much more than a warm, wet place to deposit a furtive load of sperm for recreation and never procreation. It violates the same program in human males that you can see in nature shows, most notably those describing the love life of lions. No male is primarily interested in supporting or protecting the offspring of another male. They are interested, by hardwired genetic programming, in investing their time, energy and risking safety, etc. protecting the female who is carrying their progeny, and providing for the safety, etc. to ensure that progeny survives and reproduces. Male lions, when they take over a pride actually kill the offspring of the previous Alpha male. Humans aren't that severe, but there is no interest in having your mate get impregnated by another man for most men. There are always a few who have their wires shorted.
So, there are sex games that you can play with guys, you just need to know ahead of time how they will react. This same "program" is what makes guys ok with playing with "party girls" as the "town pump" has been called here, but not ok with taking them home to meet mom. The program was written before birth control, and there is no way it can be unwritten - the result is males look for females who can be trusted to accept only their seed, incubate only their babies and then raise them. All the rest of the interaction that is affected by the social situation and cultural rituals of the time and circumstances are optional, and incorporated into the selection process with an eye on producing progeny that will be successful in those circumstances.
Good luck. The process is what you make of it. Jim
wow Jim you really know your stuff! you should be my personal relationship counselor
very good points I must say and I agree with you. and I know my first mistake was sleeping with that guy without being attached. actually, when I told him I was offended by him suggesting a threesome, I told him it was also a mistake for sleeping with him so soon. he of course made up an excuse that he was drunk when he suggested the triangle but alcohol I believe is a truth serum.
anyway, what is odd is that I played in a golf tournement yesterday, with both of them, not on the same team, but it was awkward to say the least. his cousin seemed to be struttin' around me and trying to talk to me, while talking to my mom
(his parents are good friends with my parents, as is his cousin-the other guy's parents) I think he's liked me ever since I met him, he's the one that I haven't slept with.