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I need a guy's opinion..

I'm asking this because you all are guys of course and hopefully I'll get good advice coming from a guy's opinion.
Anyway..this guy that I've been seeing since May, off and on, emailed me today to ask what I was doing for the weekend. Then we got into a deeper discussion about what "this" relationship is. Well he was hinting towards sex, we did do it once about a month ago, BUT we hadn't made anything exclusive yet, so when he brings up this kind of talk, I take a step back because I don't want to be in a friends with benefits relationship with him, I'd rather be in a serious relationship instead. So...I asked him bluntly if he was seeing anyone else here or in another state since he travels sometimes, he told me no, and then I asked if he was sleeping or planned on sleeping with anyone else, he said he's not sleeping with anyone at this time. At this time??? My question is...is he intending on using me until he finds someone to be in a serious relationship with or what do you think the meaning is behind that?
He did say in an email before after we discussed when I should call him, or how often, and he said "well when you're drunk & horny is the #1 time to call me" that's when I put on the breaks and said "nope wrong answer" but that was before what I just explained.
so what is going on here?? am I blind???
sorry I know guys don't like drama, or readng about it, but please hear me out!!
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He is not interested in pursuing a serious relationship with you, that according to your text above. If that's what you want, time to move along.

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1. We're not all guys.

2. Not to sound like a total bitch, but you are a bit thick. He would just like to fuck you. If you're not into just fucking, move along, as GS suggested. Duh.
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He is not interested in pursuing a serious relationship with you, that according to your text above. If that's what you want, time to move along.
Yep that's what I thought, just need someone else to back it up. Thanks for your help GS
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1. We're not all guys.

2. Not to sound like a total bitch, but you are a bit thick. He would just like to fuck you. If you're not into just fucking, move along, as GS suggested. Duh.
sorry about the "guy" part

well I do have some trouble weeding out the "not so serious" guys, and I realize I have to work on it more.

well thanks I guess..
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sorry about the "guy" part

well I do have some trouble weeding out the "not so serious" guys, and I realize I have to work on it more.

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Sorry to be so harsh, but if he only wants you to call when you're 'drunk and horny', that should give it away. You really shouldn't need any other help on that one.
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Sorry to be so harsh, but if he only wants you to call when you're 'drunk and horny', that should give it away. You really shouldn't need any other help on that one.

yep that was the for sure red flag and I called him on it, but obviously he kept on trying...loser
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