Originally Posted by Botnst
Here's my Dr. Phil moment.
Classic, "If he rejects me I must have him" syndrome. It is related to the, "Why do I always fall for abusive jerks?" neurosis.
This is like hitting "Reset" on your computer. Buy a bottle of cheap-ass tequila and get with a girlfriend to drink it and watch a couple of Hugh Grant movies while saving, "Beaches" as the piece de resistance.
Next day you'll be sick as hell and remember that all men are pigs.
Trust me on this.
well that was very insightful Bot
but yah this is somewhat true...unfortunately. and in all honesty, I behave th same way towards guys sometimes, as being a challenge. but I only take it so far. whereas this guy...he knows I have feelings for him, and he remains being my friend which is fine, but then again, he confuses me saying he wanted to take a trip, or he took a break from his girl or whatever. but even when he says that he wants to be my friend, he doesn't act like a friend should, I mean he's truthfully the only guy friend that I have that treats me this way, that doesn't call, or call back, etc. all my other guy friends call me back or answer & we talk, etc. So maybe that's why I like this so called chase. but I need to cut this one loose for good.
so...should I email him and tell him that it was silly, like a short & simple email, or just not email or call him back, and leave it at the sob story? lol