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post #31 of 49 (permalink) Old 03-22-2007, 10:09 PM
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OK gang, I turn to the best in twisted minds for advice for the proper way to break up with a nice girl. Yeah, I've perfected the "it's not you, it's me" story. Fact is, I just don't want to be tied down right now. She's nice, smart and cute but her kids are getting way too attached. I like the little rug rats, but I don't want to screw up their lives too.

We've "dated" for three months. She's 28, I'm a young 52, I gotta bail soon after our week long trip to Aruba in two weeks. Deposits and tickets are done, hot sex will ensue, then it's sayanora. Chilly, Shane, TK, whoever, flog me good but give me some good advice. Do I have to do this in person? Phone OK? I wouldn't text or email, good God I'm old fashioned. Do I 86 Aruba? Do I have a conscience??

Does anyone care anyway?

sorry I'm just now reading this...but here is my advice:considering it's only been 3 months, I can't see how the kids are already becoming too attached, and that is her fault not yours. if she was smart she wouldn't have had the kids around you so much or even take a vacation with you unless you two were ever going to be serious, but again 3 months is too soon to tell anything like that. did you say you already went on vacation with her or planning on it? if anything don't go on vacation with the girl, then break up with her, it will safe you alot of face if anything. and to tell you the truth, getting back to the kid thing, you're 52, she's 28, and I think she has other intentions (just my opinion) but if you said they are getting too attached, well she is making them become too attached, and that isn't right to your or her kids. I would tell you to break up with her in person, just so that everything is clear, and that way she won't be left wondering if something is left out if you phone, email or text her. good luck, and if you already did, then good for you
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post #32 of 49 (permalink) Old 03-23-2007, 06:06 AM Thread Starter
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Chilly, you've made more sense than anyone on this thread. Although I think I have more than my share of blame in this deal, I think you're right about her making the kids attached and all that. I think she was in a hurry about some of that stuff, and maybe she did have other intentions.

Anyway, I set the record straight last night, in person.
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Take her to Aruba, anyway. Sex is better when you hate each other, that's why it's called 'fucking'. And pop her ass cherry, then give her a 'Dirty Sanchez' while spraying a pearl necklace on her face.

Was I unclear about anything?

You forgot to include "the Donkey Punch"
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Like I said before, I think she just wanted to go to Aruba. If she wants to, at least she knows where I stand.
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Please keep us informed. We can "talk you through this."

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...especially this whole sanchez thing.
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Leave NOW before the kids build up too much of a memory about you.
You can all still go to Aruba but not together. Pay her and her kids for a vacation by themselves as a goodbye present and get the hell out off their lives.
But remember, she is 28 and can always take care of you when you go back to diapers if yu are nice to her throughout a marriage.
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Like I said before, I think she just wanted to go to Aruba. If she wants to, at least she knows where I stand.
If she still goes to Aruba with you, marry her . . . remember, in around 7 years, the sex will get more intense.

Well, now that I think about it more, in 7 years, you'll be 59 . . . probably need a Viagra dispenser on the wall next to the bed. . .

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Time for a Viagra joke:

What does Viagra and a Dirt Devil have in common?

They both put the power of an upright in the palm of your hand!
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