Originally Posted by gerkebi
OK gang, I turn to the best in twisted minds for advice for the proper way to break up with a nice girl. Yeah, I've perfected the "it's not you, it's me" story. Fact is, I just don't want to be tied down right now. She's nice, smart and cute but her kids are getting way too attached. I like the little rug rats, but I don't want to screw up their lives too.
We've "dated" for three months. She's 28, I'm a young 52, I gotta bail soon after our week long trip to Aruba in two weeks. Deposits and tickets are done, hot sex will ensue, then it's sayanora. Chilly, Shane, TK, whoever, flog me good but give me some good advice. Do I have to do this in person? Phone OK? I wouldn't text or email, good God I'm old fashioned. Do I 86 Aruba? Do I have a conscience??
Does anyone care anyway?
sorry I'm just now reading this...but here is my advice:considering it's only been 3 months, I can't see how the kids are already becoming too attached, and that is her fault not yours. if she was smart she wouldn't have had the kids around you so much or even take a vacation with you unless you two were ever going to be serious, but again 3 months is too soon to tell anything like that. did you say you already went on vacation with her or planning on it? if anything don't go on vacation with the girl, then break up with her, it will safe you alot of face if anything. and to tell you the truth, getting back to the kid thing, you're 52, she's 28, and I think she has other intentions (just my opinion) but if you said they are getting too attached, well she is making them become too attached, and that isn't right to your or her kids. I would tell you to break up with her in person, just so that everything is clear, and that way she won't be left wondering if something is left out if you phone, email or text her. good luck, and if you already did, then good for you