thank you all
OK first i want to thank all the members of the forum for your support. i would like to fill you all in on a little info about my lovely bride
5 yrs ago she was in a car accident head on , the result was soft tissue damage she also has what is called fibromyalgia this is a debilitating disease that is triggered by shock or trauma.
its something like ms it slowly consumes its victim,my wife in 5 yrs has gone from a healthy mother of 3 to almost cripple , in the next 5 yrs i suspect she will be wheelchair bound, she cant go to the gym as exercise just speeds up the effect, there are days like today that she cant get out of bed, the pain is so great in the next 10 years when my children are finished school we will have to leave Canada for someplace warmer and dryer.
this is why the comments from the dead rat were so painful to myself and my wife
i would never comment about other members choice of a wife or husband,as we all know love is blind.
again i believe the members response is unanimous the rat was wrong , but we all know that he is not man enough to post an apology to my wife .
thank you all for your support.