Originally Posted by chill_babe
Why is it that a guy would be insecure that a girl would make as equal or more money than him? Wouldn't it make things easier for the guy (financially) or wouldn't it make it less stressful for him?
Like what type of guy doesn't like an independent girl?
or if he thinks a girl is spoiled & like nice things, but she can afford them herself, then why is it a problem if the girl likes the guy for who he is, not money?
So anyhow, what type of guy is like this? Insecure & immature? Or what?
Any insight on this would be great...especially since this is a predominantly male forum
There are plenty of weak men who will agree with you. They will tell you whatever you want to hear.
The topic of your post indicates your lack of maturity. I would tell this guy to run away from you as fast as he can. It is incredibly callous and shallow of you to dismiss out of hand his legitimate feelings. One day, a guy who makes more money than you do will treat you the same way. It is great that you are independant. That way you can let yourself out and drive yourself home at 4am. And keep youself busy until the next time he needs to get laid.
Now to answer your question.
He is what we call a "smart guy".
He knows that no matter what you say, you and the vast majority of women are hard wired to seek a man that can provide for her offspring.
Women and men are different. Sorry to contradict liberal idiocy.
Providing for your family is something that fullfills a man much the same way having a baby fullfills a woman.
Take that away from him and you have a problem.
Deny reality and you will have problems.
Children need their mother's time when they are young. Not their money.
You may be thinking, "I wasn't talking about BABIES."
But biology is what it is.
How much money do you earn and how old are you?
I will tell you who you should be looking for.