Date registered: Oct 2002
Vehicle: '85 300TD
Location: Cape Cod
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RE: Damn women...
wow, some frightening advice piling up in here.
while consoling me regarding my coming divorce, a very attractive recently divorced female friend passed along a maxim I've laughed about a few times..
marriages are like pancakes: you have to throw the first one away; it's no good.
Look, if you are looking for a relationship, you're better served to just be yourself. That means you've got to know who you are first. You don't need to know who you are to just 'date'... but it helps.
The women you describe sound like low self-esteem specials. They have to want to change, and many never ever will. No matter how supportive you are, they've got to want it first. You're not going to change them, and your relationship would be messed up if you did. Do you want to be a shrink to your girlfriend? No. (speaks from experience...)
if you're looking to score, that's a different story.
'85 300TD Pastel Beige
361,500 miles and counting