Date registered: Feb 2005
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RE: Oregon court voids 3,000 gay marriages.
I have asked several older gay acquaintances that work at the same company I do, about the subject of gay family dynamics and the effects on children. Most said this, to paraphrase."The lifestyle and dynamics of two gay people living together are much, much different than a socially, and legally recognised hetro couple living together. Gays tend to socialize much more with other gays, and that faction, has a much higher use of drugs, alcohol, and HIV related illness. Children aren't a part, and shouldn't be a part of that. The stigma children face from society, by having to EXPLAIN their family set-up to adults and friends seems to have a self esteem factor on their personalities. Since society seems to focus mostly on sexual differences between gays and hetros, children are also forced into dealing with, and explaining this issue at a very early age also, and will continue to all their lives. The longevity of most gay partnerships is still about a quarter of hetro partnerships, so, kids will suffer from these family break-ups even more than hetro ones. Not good! Alot of gay people, in an attempt to mimic and legitimize their unions will continue to involve adopting children. The idea being, to make a statement, and to FORCE society into thinking that, the gay lifestyle, is legitimate, and should be legal. Gays are selfishly adopting children, frequently for their own agendas and not for the unselfish love of bringing up a child, with the CHILDS needs coming first, not their own." Hmm... that doesn't sound like a good atmosphere for kids at all! Not if you really care about children.
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