Originally Posted by NZ Benz
Haha, thats all codeword for: "I'm waiting for something I want to hear" exactly what is your Dad going to do anyway to stop you?
THe honest answer? I truly don't know.
But probably be very upset with me, find a scapegoat (most likely my mom as he does all the time), humiliate me in front of family and friends (whcih is why I have the mindset of worryin about others' opinions, more particularly of me), cause havoc within the family that my family can't afford right now...
Why i have the mindset of worrying about others' opinions and situations? Well, you said my example was more minority...but not where I live, which is the demise of my generation. So it all comes down to credibility, even when i down tallk the "lil rich kids" (there's nothing wrong with a little assistance from the 'rents, its the spoiled ones). I want to set an example, I want to be looked up upon when regarded, which occurs with my brother, 24, currently who's very successful and has been. I want my family to tell my cousins: Hey, look at Chris, he worked hard and bought himself a Mercedes for his first, hard work pays off. I want friends to say, Hey, chris is a good kid and he works very hard. And I do worry about myself as an individual. I want to be unique, particularly in this car business, which is why I decided I want a car that isn't popular/common among my age group.
If I had this very conversation with my dad, it would have ended up very ugly. Am I askin for sympathy? No. Advice? yes because I wouldn't have gotten the advice forwarded to me that I read with my very own eyes.
so My apologies for causing anyone aggravation in this online community.