I can help you without any need to send the VIN code: look at your car's documents and try to find a sticker with the radio security code. If you cannot find the sticker, call your dealer, or visit him if they aren't familiar with you and show ownership documents. This way you don't have to use illegal data (it would be illegal to pass this data from an employers data base access, equally from a "stolen" data base).
It is a free world, almost, I wouldn't mind about delivering the code for a car this old if the owner showed he/she failed getting the code the official way, with a reasonable effort.